It's no secret that guys tend to love blowjobs. And it's also no secret that women can sometimes shy away from them. Despite the fact that the word "job" is in the name, a blowjob should never feel like work! Pleasuring your partner is meant to be fun, intimate, and stimulating. We've outlined some tips and tricks below that can get you on the road to giving the best blowjob of his life.

The first step to giving him the best blowjob of his life is to feel super, duper comfy. If you're comfy, he's comfy and if you're both comfy then that means you're both enjoying yourselves. It's just that simple!

Many women report being hesitant about giving head because they're afraid they'll do a bad job. Listen, unless you bite down hard on his head, there isn't much that you can do "wrong" in the blowjob department! Getting stressed and tense about giving a blowjob will be noticeable too, trust us. Your man can tell if you aren't into it and it will likely get you both out of the mood. And even if you aren't into for a super valid reason, like being nervous, it still reads as stress and discomfort. Men might love all kinds of blowjobs but they definitely like ones from relaxed and super willing participants best.

Giving a lot of head is the only way to get better and feel more comfortable. The more you avoid it and put it off, the longer it will take you to ever get to a point where you enjoy giving blowjobs as much as he loves receiving them. And trust us, you can eventually love them that much! We're also pretty sure that your partner would be very excited to let you "practice" on him. Try out different techniques and get him to tell you what he likes best.

Speaking of talking, be sure to keep that up during your blowjob sessions. Both parties can tend to get really quiet when it comes to oral sex so it's important to remember to speak up. Your partner can tell you if he's enjoying something or wants you to try something new, and you can check in to make sure everything okay or tell him how much you're enjoying pleasuring him. It'll seem a little awkward at first but after you start chattering it'll likely be hard to stop!

A lot of women say that they feel more comfortable giving head in the dark or with the lights very dim. Don't feel embarrassed about this because it is perfectly normal! Sometimes women feel self-conscious about feeling like they're being watched, especially if you are new to blowjobs and still nervous about your performance. As you get more comfortable giving head, you'll likely start to care less and less about how dim the lights are. Eventually you'll be going down on him in full daylight, don't you worry.

Researchers have found that more often than not, the most important thing to a guy when it comes to receiving a blowjob isn't technique at all. Rather, it's how excited their partner is to be giving them head. It make take some practice using the above tips to get comfortable but once you are, don't forget to also be excited and enthusiastic. You can try some of the below tips for even more excitement.

The best kind of blowjob is a surprise blowjob. You'll find that pretty much 100% of men will agree with this statement. Instead of inserting oral sex into your regular sex routine, try surprising him with some oral sex when he least suspects it. There is nothing sexier than dropping what you're doing and going down on your lover. Just make sure it isn't in public and he's not holding anything breakable, of course! We recommend waking him up with a blowjob in the morning, surprising him in the shower, or literally jumping him as soon as he gets home from work.

It's one thing to feel excited, but make sure to put on a bit of a show too! Guys can be sensitive little flowers and sometimes they really need you to spell out how much you're enjoying pleasuring them. Also, it can be an incredible turn-on to look up into your man's eyes while you're sucking on his dick and tell him how much you love giving him head. You'll probably turn yourself on too! Now it must be said that you shouldn't lie, of course. It's better to not say much at all if you aren't enjoying yourself enough to say so. And make sure you both work toward getting to a place where you DO feel that excited.

You may always jump at the chance to give your guy head when he asks but we know he's just dying for you to initiate a blowjob. This one is similar to surprising him but can also be applied when you're having sex or casually fooling around. Sometimes men can get a bit tired of always having to ask because it feels like they're the only ones thinking about blowjobs. Show him that you're thinking about going down on him too!

Now that we've gone over some basics, it's time to get into some more specific tips about different blowjob techniques. If you try out some of the below techniques you'll be sure to drive him absolutely crazy.

Yes, oral sex is mostly about your mouth, lips, and tongue but your hands can act as excellent supporting characters for your blowjob! There's only so much that you can do with your one mouth so consider how much more you can get done when you add two hands to the mix. While you are licking and sucking the shaft and head of his penis, use your hands to gently squeeze the base. This feels amazing, trust us. You can also focus your attention to his head and use your tongue to lightly lick it while you stroke his shaft with both of your hands. If your mouth and jaw is getting tired, you can also sub in your hands for a much needed break. You don't want your jaw to lock up or get too sore!

2. Focus on the head.

We briefly mentioned this above, but the head of the penis is very, very important. There are tons and tons of nerve endings around the head of the penis. It is a very sensitive area and all sorts of touching will drive him crazy. You can try nibbling, licking, and sucking. Also be sure to pay attention to all parts of the head, from the very tip to further along the shaft.

Yes, yes, balls are gross. It's okay to think so because everyone things so. But that doesn't mean that you should entirely ignore them too. In fact, the balls are super sensitive too so they definitely deserve some love! While you're licking his shaft, try cupping his balls in one hand and squeezing lightly. The amount of pressure that feels good will differ between guys so be sure to check in and make sure he is enjoying how it feels. A lot of times a good ball squeeze can help your dude to orgasm.

Who knew male anatomy had so many parts, right? The frenulum is a little area of skin on the underside of the penis right below the head. It is very sensitive to touch and often completely ignored so if you try licking or lightly touching this spot, it's sure to make him go completely insane. It's a very sensitive part of the penis, though, so be sure not to apply too much pressure. Keep those licks and touches super light!

You might've heard about deep-throating through your friends or via porn. It is when you insert the entire penis in your mouth and depending on his length, it can go all the way to the back of your throat. If you are worried that this is the only way to give a good blowjob, don't be because it's not true at all. Deep-throating is not the end all-be all to blowjobs. You don't need to cram his whole dick in your mouth to make him feel good. Remember, this is about your comfort too and any good partner would not be into a blowjob if he knew it was making you feel gross or uncomfortable. Use your tongue, use your hands, and get crafty with your lips and make him forget that the phrase "deep-throat" even exists.

Introducing teeth to a blowjob can be a great way to increase pleasure and make the experience more fun and interesting. However, be careful that you don't bite or nibble too hard! Each guy has his own comfort zone and you don't want accidentally take out a chunk of his dick either. Check in with him about how much pressure he's okay with. We recommend starting of with very very light nibbles or scrapes. Run your teeth very lightly along the head or shaft of his penis like you're going to bite down but change your mind. It's a light touch that's different enough from a tongue or finger that it will feel incredible.

Another way to introduce a new sensation to a blowjob is to try a bit of suction. Take as much of his penis into your mouth as you are comfortable with and seal your lips along the shaft. Then lightly inhale or suck in. This creates a bit of a vacuum and should create a super different and pleasurable sensation for him. As you get comfortable with the whole sucking action, you can try moving your lips up and down the shaft while also sucking in.

Blowjobs require some sort of liquid. Whether you want that to be saliva or lube is up to you! But if you are going to go the lube route, make sure that it tastes good! There are loads of great edible lubes out there that are specifically meant for giving head. That way he gets a great feeling and you don't have to worry about a super gross aftertaste. And there's no shame in using lube either! Sometimes your own saliva just doesn't cut it and that is totally okay.

Now that we've gone over some of the basics and gone into some more specific techniques, you are about ready to go out into the world and get your blowjob on. Hopefully you are feeling much more comfortable and hopefully excited about giving your lover head now! Before we wrap this up, we want to add a few final thoughts to keep in mind:

What we mean by this is, don't worry if your mouth isn't accomplishing the same things that your vagina can. Oral sex is meant to be totally different! It creates a different sensation and accomplishes different sex goals. And besides, you wouldn't want your mouth to feel exactly like a vagina, now would you.

In a recent poll, 54% of men said that they most prefer blowjobs as a form of foreplay and that they didn't need to necessarily get off from their partner going down on them. So whether you aren't a huge fan of having to spit or swallow (don't worry—plenty of people don't really like getting semen in their mouths) or are worried about how long it could take to make him orgasm, this should put you at ease. Think of a blowjob as part of the entire sex experience.

And there you have it! Now you should be completely, 100% ready to give him the best blowjob of his life.

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